Batam ( Part 2)

after dinner heart to heart talk in the bedroom... :)

games and drink..!!

Some guys just need to have some sense..!! if you get too pushy...you simply wouldn't get wat you want... you will not only not get wat you want... you will also irritated the girl..!! in the end.. you will end up with nth .. not even a single date..!! So please stay away from mi..and Plz dont try so hard coz i simply dont wanna hurt anyone..! * wink*

ps : Guys should never take advantage of a situation to win the girl over.. and i mean it..!!

Batam Trip (Part 1)

















Cable ski-ing is fun...the instructors brief on the safety issues and stuff... Amanda and i totally freaked out when we know we might injure our face... the instructors keep emphasising that we must take our ski-board with us... like when we ski half way then we fall into the water..then we must take the board with us... i tried two times and failed completely..i couldn't even pass pt 1 .. and every time i fall into the water..i just let my board float away and i just swim back to the shore..

the first time i failed, i immediately swim my way back leaving the board there... the guys keep shouting at mi to take the board but it just seems like i couldn't hear a word... then i peng le lao ming de swim back coz i damn scare i kenna hit by the next ski-ing person... everybody dont have a pro taking the board and float back.. but everytime i fall into the water.. my first reaction is to faster swim back keke.. and when i realize i never take the board its too late already..ahah...-.-

then the second time i went to try.. the instructor say i owe him a beer becoz i forgot to take back.. then i just laugh my way out.. !! kekek.. then i promised him that i will take back the float these time round... bbbuuuuutttttt in the end i still never take.. im such a idiot..!! From then on...whenever the instructor walk past..i just keep my head low... damn ps... then he say.." you dont even dare to look at mi" wth... i already very ps for being so lousy and he still wanna expose mi..! -,-
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After ski-ing we got back to the hotel and cleaned up..getting ready for the indonesia massage in Tea Tree spa ... wwwoootttsss.... i cannot say its shiok becoz i feel very ticklish.. i cannot stop laughing whenever she massage my sensitive areas.. all my muscles are super tight and i just keep shaking.. then she keep asking mi if im okay.. kek.. so embarrassed...:( but i will try again..i'll try my best to relax and enjoy the massage next time.! :)


To Be Continue....

love,
xuan

Hey people...do you rmb i told you guys about the show 絕代商驕 ( you're hired) i have offically finish the whole show... and there is these special part that i really like.. let mi show you guys..!



im sorry if you guys dont understand..! but when the female lead told the guy that all she ever want is a guy to love and dote on her...i think need to coax too... then i realize yay... all a girl ever want is to find a bf who can fulfill all that.. not that hard at all... but not every guy can do that...maybe all these perfect bf can only be found in drama...sad case..! :(
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you know wat..im like so dumb again... i didn't know batam is in indonesia until my colleague told mi so..i always thought its a small island in malaysia... if she never tell me... i think i also dont know where i end up lor.. so dumb... leaving in a few hours time and yet i didn't know i going indo..!! lol..-.-
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up till these very moment i still haven done packing... i only packed my skincare ..makeup and shower stuff... lol... i dont know how many sets of clothes to bring... sian to max... and i also dont know wat to bring..lol...!! and i haven tell you guys wat i'll be doing in batam right ?? on the very first day...we will go cable ski-ing... i know its not my type of thing.. but no harm trying and experiencing it right ??!! *.* but my expert friend say.. cable ski-ing is quite hard..coz once it starts , its full speed one unlike those in the beaches one.. the speed will increase gradually so the person ski-ing can slowly prepare to stand... so if you're not pro enough...you will be like superman for a few seconds then you will hit the water real hard... oouuccchhhh.....!!

next up will be a full body massage... these is then my thing man...!! cant wait to really relax every muscle of mine... wwooottss ..!! ^^ up next will be dinner...having seafood... yummy..!
after dinner we will be back at the resort for some games... fun ..crazy games ( i guess)

second day...we will be going for paintball...sounds so cool...tired laser one be4...paintball sounds even more fun..!but heard that its gonna hurt very badly if kanna hit... my sis and qh tired paintball already in bbk...and they both have blueblack and lumps...!! ewwww...!!but anyway its gonna be so much fun..so a little pain doesn't kill... and if i really have blueblacks or lumps...daddy will massage it for mi..!! kekek..!

need to go pack up already if not i really dont need to sleep..! ^^

ps. Have a lovely weekend people..!

pps. Alan and ly..dont forget our date on sun evening.. love love..


love ,
xuan

Gonna share sth with you guys... ^^ i think its pretty true for my part... wat about yours ??!!


12星座女人前人後差異有多大？
由 ♡ 娃娃 ♡(1736163) 發表於 2009-09-21, 11:42

★白羊座——人前海派 人後算計★


人前人後差異度20%


卸裝前大部份時間都相當不拘小節的白羊，喜歡交朋友的羊兒，朋友可說是來自五湖四海，只要是志同道合，管你是那一國的，通通來者不拒！人前的羊兒就是一副大姐頭模樣啦！


卸裝後任何會冒犯到他們尊嚴和損及自信的事，最好還是小心一點！如果你不信這一點，執意去冒這個險，小心白羊座翻臉不認人，他雖然不見得會直接兇你，卻會默默地和你劃清界限。

　
　★金牛座——愛計較的斯文女郎★


人前人後差異度40%


卸裝前她呈現在眾人面前的模樣總是一派斯文，而且也相當善良，喜歡幫助別人，做事又循規蹈矩，因此很得朋友的信任，有時候卻會因為太固執不聽勸而使朋友感到困擾。


卸裝後不管感情再好，私底下金牛座對於錢還是算得很清楚，他們不是小器，只是認為凡事明算賬會比較好，或許她在表面上不會斤斤計較，但若你有欠於她，她也會私下討回。

　　

★雙子座——活潑外放卻注重隱私★


人前人後差異度60%


卸裝前外表看起來相當知性的雙子座，無論是在交友或感情上都比較博愛，舞會、party，朋友聚會的場所，都可以看見她長袖善舞，活脫脫就是一個開心果！


卸裝後別看雙子座的人風趣、幽默、大方得很，對於自己的隱私他們可是相當重視的！千萬別以為你與她已經感情深厚，就能肆無忌憚地探知她的一切，她可是會覺得不爽呢！

　　
★巨蟹座——人前和善 私下閉俗★



人前人後差異度55%


卸裝前平時她不喜歡表現得勇猛衝動，容易給人一種畏縮的感覺，不太喜歡冒險，喜愛平靜、自由自在的生活，一旦談了戀愛，就會甘願受束縛，直覺能力很強。


卸裝後巨蟹座雖然待人和善，但私底下只對自己的親朋好友熱絡，對於其他他不大熟的人會豎起強大的防護墻，在第一時間往往會選擇緊關心門，人後的她其實是佷自閉的。

　　

★獅子座——看似大刺 實則心細★



人前人後差異度30%


卸裝前在人前總是一副活潑、開朗、熱情、活躍的模樣，會讓人覺得她是個非常坦誠和直率的人，喜歡向外發展，擅長交際，口才極佳，善於表達自己的意見。


卸裝後很有王者風範的獅子座，其實是個非常害怕寂寞的女人，尤其是陷入戀愛中的獅子座，私底下面對情人時，會變得懂事，很照顧對方，而且獅子座付出的往往會勝過對方。

　

　★處女座——看似聰明 實則脆弱★


人前人後差異度60%


卸裝前她看起來總是一副聰明樣，有著敏銳的觀察能力，善於運用情緒的力量影響別人，表面上看似獨立且相當追求完美，喜愛高質感的生活，對喜歡的人充滿著關愛。


卸裝後其實她的個性像是小孩一般，敏感而纖細，私底下和她相處必需像哄小孩子一樣，因為處女座其實非常害羞，表面上看似不在乎，往往不是那麼一回事。

　　
★天秤座——紳士的背後是自戀作祟★


人前人後差異度45%


卸裝前顯現在外的她是個不好喜形於色的人，內心的喜、怒、哀、樂也都會儘量壓抑住，縱使存在著某些慾望，也會儘量不讓人發現，希望週遭的事物都能完美呈現。


卸裝後真實的天秤座其實是相當自私的，無論她的嘴多甜、將事情做得多麼棒，追根究底也都是因為他的表現欲，想讓人覺得他是最好的，這樣的自戀程度，不容外界的否定和懷疑。

　　
★天蝎座——冷靜的背後是脆弱多疑★


人前人後差異度80%


卸裝前沉默寡言的她，屬於感情內斂派的一員，絕不輕易原諒別人的背叛，只要發現蛛絲馬跡，就會默默地觀察，完全不在乎他人的偏見與質疑，給人一種堅強的感覺。


卸裝後蝎女的愛恨情仇與忌妒都是超級強烈的，在她冷靜的背後，其實心裏已經猶如火在燒！在真實面中的她，是相當脆弱的，容易懷疑、容易受傷，也不容易自傷痛中復原。

　　
★射手座——隨性的外在 自我的內心★


人前人後差異度20%


卸裝前她喜歡結識新朋友，加入充滿挑戰性的社交圈也能樂在其中，對感情的追求也是十分主動，一遇到喜歡的對象或充滿興趣的事物，就會毫不猶豫地去追求。


卸裝後看似隨和的她其實相當自我，不喜歡受到任何控制，除非是她自願做的事情，否則很難強迫他。並不像顯現在外表上的率性態度，偶爾也會有一些小家子氣的計較產生。

　　
★摩羯座——嚴肅面下也有顆叛逆的心★


人前人後差異度70%


卸裝前行事風格相當嚴肅的她，喜歡工作的感覺，總是在追求更高的成就！具有非常好的技藝和創作才能，做任何事物求完美無瑕，給人一種總是兢兢業業在過活的感覺。


卸裝後其實她的天性樂觀，個性懂事又靦腆，安靜且守本份，做事謹慎踏實又有計劃，但是在內心深處卻藏著極端不同的心，偶爾就會展現出不同於平日的態度，讓人吃驚。

　
　★水瓶座——表面博愛內心純真★


人前人後差異度25%


卸裝前不喜歡受束縛，所以也不喜歡介入別人的隱私，展現在外的就是個博愛主義者，與任何人都能成為好朋友，不會特別局限去喜歡某一類型的人或事物。


卸裝後看起來一派瀟灑的水瓶座其實擁有純真的赤子之心，調皮的他鬼點子多又有趣，活潑開朗令人覺得魅力無窮，但其實心裏卻隱藏著極浪漫、細膩的一面。

　
　★雙魚座——天真的假像背後是顆深沉的心★


人前人後差異度85%


卸裝前看起來是充滿熱情及同理心的，她嚮往自由戀愛的滋味，也喜歡結交朋友，總是受到眾人歡迎，她也是善於協調、懂得察言觀色的，總能掌握機運，獲得成功。


卸裝後表面上看似溫和隨性的雙魚，其實內心隱藏著自私與陰暗的一面，對於能夠利用的人事物，絕不會輕易放棄，擺出一副無害的態度讓人覺得放心，實則心機深沉。

出處： http://www.wretch.cc/blog/ab015009/31361351

HEy HEy HEy... my ex-colleague just got married...omg..so happy for them..saw their pictures in fb...so sweet and nice...so feel like getting married out of the sudden... ^^ keek... eeemm...im just kiddng..not going get married until 32... wanna enjoy singlehood first then really settle down..provided i can find someone lah.. ^^



i keep having these random questions in my head....
1) Wat will you do if your best friend's husband say he like you ? You have a special liking for him for quite some time already...and out of a sudden he confessed.... will you get tgt with him or tell his wife wat he said..?? my colleague asked mi these qn...i remain silent for awhile ..then say " i might get tgt with him secretly..." and she immediately say i got no morals... wth..! there is no right or wrong in love right ??!!



2)You are tgt with a guy for maybe 7 years... and you're 29 now... suitable age for marriage .... then suddenly you start to realize that these person is not someone that you wanna spend the rest of your life with... the worst part is he proposed to you..wat are you gonna do ?? break up with him and say that you guys are just not meant for each other ??? or just get married...hack care the love part...becoz you think its gonna fade anyway..??i think i will just marry him..becoz i think its very tiring to find a new one.. im super lazy in love...like you have to get use to another person..then you have to understand another person from the begining... just very tiring...and wat if the feeling of not suiting one another is just a sudden thought ??! then you would have missed your right one... on the other hand... i think breaking up is also a good choice.. becoz you dont wanna spend half of your life with someone you dont feel for... its like you "wasted" half of your life with him... why not give these one up then use the rest of your time to find someone suitable ??? then you only "waste " 7 years and not 40 over years in a marriage...am i right???



okay..i should really stop thinking about stupid things/ qn like these... totally wasting my time ...!! daddy just helped me buy toto... keke... pray that i win the 1000 million okay..!! then i will become xiao fu po... :) ( i should stop dreaming too.... -.-)



ps. baby girl just called..so glad that everything is fine... wwoots..!!
pps. cant wait to leave on saturday.. ^^

oh ya... and i actually update my twitter quite often..so do vist my blog to see the lastest update k... love love...

love,
xuan

Just did sth terrible today.. *sob sob* i brought a chanel loose powder and only realize i dont need it at all when its paid... tmd..!! i dont really put on makeup everyday... even going to work i dont put makeup..go school i dont...i only put powder when i go clubbing or town... i've got lots of powder in my drawer..its not even finishing at all... omg... wasted my $$ on sth i dont need...i should really stop my impulsive buyings....really stop....:( now im really in debt..the hole in my pocket just keeps getting bigger..:( i need a sugar daddy...!!!



Have you guys watched 絕代商驕 ( you're hired) ..its damn nice... the beginning is quite cute and when its nearing the end...when both leads are in love , that part is sooo sweet..sweet to the max...! the gf wanted the guy to change he's image... and the very next hour he's done with he's new look... he respects the girl and coax her when needed... omg.. how i wish i could find a guy like that..doing the right things and the right time and knows how to please me...!! ^^



just got back from dinner and movie..watched whiteout... the female lead is damn hot...!! sizzling hot body... woots.... was late today becoz i cant find my clothes.... ggggrrrrrr.... made him wait...felt so bad.. but at least i took a cab down so just late for less than half an hour.. :) he told mi not to take cab ..ask mi save $$ but if i listened to him... i'll be really late...-.- had a great night...thanks..!!

love,
xuan..^^

Watched the time traveler's wife yesterday...not too bad i guess.... but i fell asleep when its nearing the end...missed the ending... :(

Getting out of town next weekend... freeing myself from the buzz and bustle of the city and getting an idyllic getaway.....the best way to let your hair down and enjoy... !! cant wait....! ^^

i created a twitter account already..horray..you know sometimes when i have random thoughts ..and i cant really write it in a long post...twitter will be put in good use..@@ so..twitter with me.. love..^^

with lots of love
xuan.. **

PARTY LIKE A ROCK STAR>>>>>

love,
xuan...

gonna go club tml.... cant wait.... but i think the very next day..i will look like a zombie ..coz i cant sleep at all... i will leave the club at around 4 plus then by the time i reach home it will be already 5..then i shower and stuff i need to go work le..like really no time to even take a quick nap.... but there is always give and take... you enjoyed your night then you have to sacrifice your sleep..! *winks*
then thursday going to shop for sth impt...then friday birthday celebration for my friend then sat need to work half day...omg...a busy busy week..!!!



ps. i scored "A " for friendship...and a "F" for relationship...how nice..! -.-


love,
xuan.

Life can never get better then these.... ^^ i know i keep praising my firends..and it might have already made you guys feel irritated.... bbbbuuuuutttttt they are really sweet to the max..so how could i not love them.... thanks people... all the advice and company that i needed..!! im melting all becoz of you guys..!

going shopping tml...hip hip horray...have not shop for ages..but im not even shopping for my own stuff...:( but im still happy..coz im buying things for my beloved one..!! ^^

wed going clubbing..!! *winks*

my attachment is giving mi so much cuts ....and endless painful fingers... :(

love,
xuan

my attachment is such a pain in the ass...!! i just keep doing the same thing almost everyday.. and my hand hurts like hell becoz of all the bending of metals and stuff and i just chipped my nails... good job man..!!! all becoz of a A ,B grade and a dont know how many credit shitty "subject" i have to endure all these craps..!!

i missed my holiday trip with man man to hongkong... we were so happily planning like two mths ago..becoz she needs to go back and attend her cousin's wedding..then i need to go back and visit my grandma..so we agreed on a certain date and stuff ...then say until damn happy about clubbing in hk and shopping tgt... and now all these become nth..just words..!!! ggggggrrrrrrr then my sis and qi is going bbk...jealous to max..fml...!!! not only did i miss all my holiday trips but also my afternoon naps and clubbing on wednesday night... i need my afternoon naps damn badly lah... everyday after lunch i really feeling like sleeping lor...but i cant...becoz im stupid-ly bending metals...wth..!!!! my girls just went butter on wednesday lah..aaaarrrhhhhh i have not been to butter for a really long time lor..!!! missing all the fun like agian...!!!! :(

but on the brighter side... i have very good colleagues... so heng... we talked almost like anything ...from love to family and blah blah blah....... time always passes very quickly when we are happily talking and laughing...love love..!! *.* they are really very nice people... and i can speak to them in canto..happy happy...!!!

now i realise working is really very tiring... you got to wake up like freaking early... when i was in secondary school i dont even have to wake up so early lor... sian to max...now i understand why he always fall asleep in the movies... 9 out of 10 movies he is sleeping ...he just cant stop dozing off... so its like im watching movie alone... i made a fuss once...and warned him if he ever fall asleep again... i will never watch movie with him ever again.... so he tried staying awake..but after that one movie...you will see him sleeping again...now i work almost everyday..i can totally understand how tired he is... and how unreasonable i am..!!! :)you will only understand it when you personally experiance it..! *winks*

ps:now my favourite days are off days and pay day...!! ahah...

pps : love grows in a glance , live with kisses and die in tears...

a song to share...!


love,
xuan ^^

Baby Ting 's 18th birthday..^^
Happy birthday my dear girl... hope you had a great celebration that day..!! cheers to 6 years of friendship...thanks for giving mi lots of solution when i have problem .... you know i love you...!! *winks*

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ps.you have to know that..sometimes even a thousand sorry cant exchange for a " its okay."

love,
xuan

Celebration after exam..and des 18th birthday celebration...

after eating at JP... we went clementi for kbox...had fun... then headed home...!! ^^
watched almost midnight movie with friends...blood ties...it sucks... i totally hate the movie...not engaging at all... and there are raping scenes which i hate the most..becoz i feel that its a total insult to women.. i just feel disgusted to the max....eewwww... @$*%$%%@#

its 2m now... just got home after movie with the usuals...yesh..movie like agian..!! watched i love beth cooper...nice nice nice...very hilarious...you will laugh from the begining to the end...!! no regrets..!! :)
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brought sth like a mth ago...i didn't want to buy it at the begining...but the "salesperson"told mi how good it was and stuff... i was convinced and brought it.... now then i realized the sth that i broughtwasn't as good as wat the "salesperson " said...damn good at bullshitting..making me learn that some "salesperson" are simply good at convincing you to stufff that you know you shouldn't believe in becoz you heard stories about these people..how they bluff and stuff !! a lesson learnt...a price paid...!!! well done..!!!

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im sharing with you guys some songs that i really like now..and it does somehow describe how i feel...hope you guys love it as much as i do..!! *cheese*