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11:06 AM Sunday, July 7, 2013
我在脸书上看到了这个问题 '在感情里适合还是爱比较重要？'， 有的说适合但大多数人都说爱。我那时候看了就
马上说‘但然是爱重要’。我那时会那么认为是因为我觉得只要有爱，任何事，任何不满的都能睁一只眼闭一只眼和不顾一切的包容和体谅。在感情里本来就会有不满于不和，当两个完全不一样的人走在一起，磨擦是难免的，他不会事事都配合你，容忍你，他也不可能完完全全的了解你的做事风格和态度所以如果没有爱那这么能一直走下去呢？
可是过了几天当我在想想时，我却有了新的想法。爱会随着时间慢慢流逝，不是说这世界上没有永恒不变的爱情，一定有，肯定有，但是遇到永恒不变的爱情的机会有多大？我能睁一只眼闭一只眼多久？包容多久？一年？一辈子？如果要我包容，容忍一辈子，我觉得是件非常委屈自己的一件事，非常不爱惜自己也是一件非常痛苦的事。为何因为一个人而委屈自己一辈子呢？你可能会说，因为我爱他我可以包容所有，可是你是否知道爱会因为争吵而流逝，会因为很多因数而不爱了？
当你找到了适合的人，很多事情你就不需要容忍，他能体谅你，他了解你，他会配合你，他是一个能补你不足的一个人。
当你想谈恋爱时，你就找个你爱的人。谈恋爱就是要打打闹闹，就是要哭个死去活来，就是要跟朋友说‘他都不懂我’可是因为爱他，所以没离开。当你想要结婚了（就要有理智），想过点安稳平静的生活是就找个适合的人吧！
Love,
XK
4:06 PM Tuesday, July 2, 2013
I used to look follow to start working because that will be the time when i have full control of how i wan my life to be. i'll get to choose which industry to enter, i'll get to request for the amt of salary i think i deserve and i believe that will be the time when i can earn lots of money! :D
But recently i got afraid about graduating... i got afraid because i don't know what lies ahead...n negative thoughts took over my head (bad thing.. negative thoughts brings u nowhere but pull u down). i was scare that i couldn't find my ideal job, get my ideal pay and i'm afraid that i will have to work in a really far place!!!!!
I told my bf about it and he say 船到桥头自然直, told my sis about it and she say its too early to get worry now. both of them are so bad at comforting me..;(
Uncertainty happens a lot of times in our life; be it getting a new job, getting into a r/s or marriage or getting a house( not sure if u r getting the best deal)etc. I guess its pretty normal to feel scare because its a change, a new start and it might be something so new to u that u have never experience before( for my case, its all 3).
Life is exciting because you don't know whats ahead, you don't know what god has planned for u..so here i am trying to overcome my fear of change and i'm gonna start being hopeful of what the future holds for me...;）
Lots of love.
