12:45 AM Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Boys boys boys..tsk tsk tsk...
some boys are major turn off and not worth your time at all.. some boys just dont know how to do things at the right time and doing it right...tsk tsk tsk..heard too many stories
and seen too much.. once a turn off forever a turn off.. once a jackass always a jackass..
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Turn off
1) Petty Shit ass , if you're a man then behave like a man.. why do you behave like a women or pussy. i thought the word petty only exist in a women's dictionary , but well.. its just not the case.. when you expect your gf to coax you non-stop and keep apologizing ,it does not show how manly you are and how 'tiny' your gf is.. it just show that you are a MCP(male chauvinist pig) if your gf really did sth that pissed you off .tell her where the problem lies ,work out the problem tgt and if she already apologize then forgive her and stop giving her a fcuked up face.. be nice..! no matter wat she's still the person you love and chose.!
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2) Guys with no motivation to improve themselves. Its kinda loser act , why do you want to stay at where you are and not wanting to improve yourself and your self worth ?! its okay to not have high qualification ,its okay that you're not smart ..as long as you have the will to improve .. we girls can totally accept it.. Let me see it , let me feel it.. staying at your comfort zone is the worst thing coz you are never gonna improve ..!! turn off.!
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3)guys who say that they feel bad about their gf paying for meals but are not doing a fcuking shit about it.. :) i think its totally okay for a girl to pay for meals at times ..but HELLO.... if you're not doing anything about it dont complain then you feel bloody bad and embarrassed.. coz you are the one who brought shame to yourself.. -.-
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to be continued....
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i know i sound like a total bitch but there are really guys that are like that out there.. no matter wat..there are still nice guys out there who deserve our time... i rather stay single for a long long time then to be who a lousy jerk.. :) hope everyone feels and thinks these way too.. :)
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gonna blog about 2010 resolution soon.. have been really busy recently.. all the house parties and working every day.. i really have no time to blog about recent events and upload pictures.. but i'll do that as soon as all celebrations and parties are over.. !! tml there is a count down party at my house,on the 2nd there will be a pre birthday celebration then after a few days or a week ..i'll be leavingsingapore to celebrate my birthday.. and i still haven find some time to go and look at the catologs..and book my tickets..!! sian to max.. so many things to do and as usual so little time.. :(
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partying tonight.. :) woots..
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love,xuan
10:18 AM Thursday, December 24, 2009
Baby Jas's 18th birthday.. WOOTS>>
(one mth ago..expired)
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started to prepare her celebration on the cabby..... the balloons are urber pretty..but damn ex...$.$
had not blown so much balloons for like a long long time.. used to blow lots of balloons when i was like 10 years old..i'll draw eyes and mouth on them ...then name them...! silly..!
love jas..she's our da jie..:) THE PARTY STARTS>>>SPRAYS ARE OUR FAVOURITE>>>
although the staffs warned us not to play the sprays..but we never have a habit of abiding to rules..rules that are told.. we will say a big NO in our heart.. wahah.. we are bad customers... .
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HAving fun and enjoying is our main priority..ssspppprrraaayyyy...
the guys can never stop..so wat if its gonna get into our eyes.. we're never gonna stop, just laugh..!sweetest torture..!
the mess that we had created..!! hahah...cleaning up in process....as usual..happy birthday to you..!!
the guys are still not stoping..!!!I LOVE US...HOPE WE STAY LIKE THAT FOREVER OR EVEN CLOSER.. ! ^^ .
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MY RULES ...MY HABITS....MY BELIEFS
i have lots of restrictions and rules for myself..friends that are really close to me or spend lots of time with me will know..!!and since i've got nth to blog about now..so why not i just share with you guys..:)
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1)i rarely eat candies...becoz i think they are not worth getting fat for..its not even nice and its very tiring to keep chewing..! whenever i have a sudden urge to eat it..i'll tell myself how much sugars there are..and i know i cannot eat it.. :)
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2)i stand for at least 1hr after meals.. when im at home i will definitely do it,i make it a practice...when im outside i'll try to eat as little as i can and i will sit up straight coz its very funny to stand when all your friends are sitting lah..! i believe that the food that we just consume that is gonna turn into fats would not get stuck in our stomach area..!if i sit down ..i will feel damn uncomfortable...
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3) i dont drink cold drinks and soft drinks[ im not talking about liqour and yogurt drinks lah coz they dont have it hot and it will be weird.. :) ]... i only drink hot tea.. i know it make me look like a old auntie but cold drinks can harden your fats and its very hard for you to slim down .. while hot tea or warm water can help in digestion...i think i only drink cold drinks and soft drinks once in a blue moon.. like less then 5 times a year lor.. im so used to drink hot teas that i think cold drink is not nice... :)
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4)i only shower 3 hrs later after meals... if you shower right after meal you are gonna get fat easily.. coz after meals , your body will be concentrating on digesting your food.. so if you shower.. the body needs to 'multi task' ...they have to keep you warm and at the same time digest your food...and so its very hard for digestion to take place.. :)
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5)i dont eat chewing gums and cattlefish.. as long as its food that needs me to keep chewing, i'll not eat it.. coz my mouth will get very tired and the muscles around your jaws is working too..so the muscles will grow bigger and resulting in big face.. haha...im not born with a small face so i cant afford to make it bigger... :)
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there are alot more ..but im very lazy to type it all out..!!
byebye..
love,
xuan
4:01 AM Saturday, December 19, 2009
i hate myself for being such a coward ,
i hate myself for being so sensitive towards other people's feeling and putting myself at a disadvantage position ,
i hate myself for not having the courage to say NO and walk off ,
i hate myself for putting up a strong front when i feel like crying inside,
i hate it when i dont know how to express myself,
i hate it when i have so much to say and i dont know how to spit it out.
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i just realize the "world" that i lived in only exist becoz im so well protected and well loved by the ones who loved me dearly.. only when you get out of the world that you lived in..you realize there are two sides... the world that you live in is just a illusion.. when reality steps in , your world disappear and you will see the other side , its not wat you imagined it to be....
love ,
xuan
2:44 PM Saturday, December 12, 2009
SteamBoat @ Jas 's PLAce..! :D
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Preparing in Process..!
XE cut her finger when choppping corns... -.-
AS USUAL , we brought lots of food... Everytime the food is left unfinished.. we just need to learn how to restrain ourselve from throwing wat we see into our trolley in the mart...!!
AND FINALLY WE Begins... EAT EAT EAT... .
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THe cleaning part is always the most un-enjoyable part of the whole steamboat thingy.. and i totally agrees.. everytime when we are having steamboat at my house..im the one who does all the washing.. i've grown smarter..these time round , i decided to be the cameraman instead.. :( wahah..!
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PICTURE TIME>>
LOVE THEM ALL>..! ^.^
*IMAGINARY PICTURE OF JAS*
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I had been neglecting my blog for a while due to exams..you should know by now..im a very last minute person..so a week or so be4 exams i'll be busying revising/ trying super hard to get everything inside my head.. :) if the Burning of notes and drinking the ash method worked..i would not have neglect my blog.. sadly it doesn't work .. :)
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ITs holidays for all my poly mates but not really for me.. busy working and working for me..tml im gonna start my first day at ettusaia...but im so dead i have not rmb /read through the notes at alll....!!! HOW AM I GONNA SELL PRODUCTS TML..!!i still have to memorize/ recongnize the japanese characters as some products dont have english wordings telling you the shade or wat type it is..!! AAARRRRHHHHH..... and i have 3 quiz to complete be4 tml..!! life sucks..!!
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looking on the brighter side... there are lots of celebrations coming up..all those gif exchange and logcakes...christmas is the best festive ever.. becoz you got a chance not only to recieve gifts but buy presents for your beloved friends... a great chance to pamper yourselve and your friends.. ^.^....and im starting to plan for my birthday already..planning an oversea trip wih my gfs.. love and looking forward to it.. :) PLZ BE STEADY..~~
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CAN someone plz tell me wat can i get for a gift exchange... it have to be suitable for both genders ? i totally have no idea.. TELL ME PLZZZZZ>>>>!!! dont tell me photo frame , teddy bears...-.-... PLZ BE CREATIVE>>>IDEAS IDEAS IDeas..!!
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PS : Talk to me becoz you care for me as a friend and you really want to know how im doing....DOnt talk to me becoz you're bored ,you got nothing better to do..im not your moment of entertainment..Plz have some respect for yourself and me..Thank you..
love,
xuan
1:03 AM Tuesday, December 1, 2009
真正愛你的男人 & 真正愛你的女人
1、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他的手機會為你24小時開機,在你最需要他的時候可以隨時找到他,因為他愛你,所以會時時擔心你
2、 如果一個男人愛你,他會很自豪的告訴他的朋友與家人你是他最愛的女人,當然並不是時時掛在嘴上,而是用一種行動去告訴別人,你是他最愛的女人!因為有了你他覺得很驕傲,無論你是不是真的很優秀
3、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他會把除了工作之外的很多時間都給你,當然會偶爾和朋友去聚會,因為他想時時刻刻都看見你
4、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他會毫不吝嗇的給你物質上的付出因為他覺得他所有辛苦的努力就是為了讓你過上很幸福的生活,他愛你,不想讓你過的那麼艱苦
5、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他絕對不會罵你,在你很任性的時候任你發泄,當你任性過去的時候,會很委屈的說:“老婆,我又作錯什麼了?你可以告訴我,我一定改,千萬不要生氣,那樣會把身體氣壞的”
6、 如果一個男人真的愛你,你會發現你和他在一起後,不經意間發現你總有很多穿不完的衣服,而此時你會發現他的褲子上有個小洞洞,他會很解嘲的說:“現在不是流行乞丐服嗎?再說男人要有內涵,穿那麼好幹什麼?”呵呵,因為他總是看見漂亮的東西就買給你。
7、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他就不在乎陪你逛街會浪費他多少出去自由的機會,因為他甘願失去那種所謂的自由
8、 如果一個男人真的愛你,無論你們在一起多久,都會陪你一起爬山,看海,看星星,看日落,因為他知道你渴望這樣的浪漫
9、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他絕對不會嚷嚷著叫你去減肥,但是這個時候你自己一定要去健康減肥,因為苗條的女人確實可以叫人賞心悅目。因為你的健康是他最關心
10、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他不會留戀與網絡與別的小妹眉甜言蜜語,因為對你他都有說不完的愛,哪有那心思和別人廢話
11、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他不會還和前女友很密切聯系
12、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他在每天很辛苦的工作回到家的時候,會抱著你說“老婆,我回來了”他愛你,他絕對不會把不快樂帶給你!
13、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他會在清晨上班的時候,親吻你的眼睛,滿足的說:寶貝,我上班去了!” 如果一個男人真的愛你,他絕對不會忍心背叛你,無論出於什麼樣的動機。。因為在他眼裏,你是最美的,即便你不是
14、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他會在你故意說要離開的時候,撒嬌的不和你分開,而在你真的想離開的時候,就會放你走,即便他真的不願意放手。因為他愛你,只希望你幸福
15、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他絕對不會一次次把你推向那冰冷的手術臺,更不會讓你一個人孤孤單單的去走向那冰冷的世界,,,他會鄭重的說:“把我們的寶貝生下來吧!”
16、 如果一個男人真的愛你,他會象愛他家人那樣愛你的家人,也會尊重你的親人和朋友真正愛你的男人,平時不做家務,有了你以後,搶著做家務,但每次都把你拉在身旁看做他做。
17、 真正愛你的男人,討厭逛街,但會牽著你的小手往返於各大商場只為找到你所鐘愛的衣服,即使在累也裝作很高興的樣子,幫你參謀著那件衣服適合你的氣質。
18、 真正愛你的男人,出差回來從來不喜歡大包小包的帶東西,但有了你以後,出差包袱裏面會有你喜歡吃的食品,你合身的衣服、鞋子,甚至褲襪和內褲。
19、 真正愛你的男人,喜歡每天和你在一起,無時無刻總是拉著你的小手放在他的掌心,即使吃飯的時候也不松開你的小手。
20、 真正愛你的男人,即使工作在辛苦,在不順心,下班回家,也會滿臉笑容的跟你說話,逗你開心,你的笑容是他最好的解乏藥。
21、 真正愛你的男人,在工作閑暇之余都會電話給你,即便不方便電話也會短信給你,其實也沒有什麼好說的,只是告訴你他在想你,關心你
真正愛你的女孩_男生要看喔!
真正愛你的女孩,要你猜那樣,要你猜這樣,目的想要你知道她在想什麼,想錯她又罵你"沒事啦!笨蛋" 。
真正愛你的女孩,是你最需要她時候,常裝著冷漠不關心,卻溫柔的問你沒事嗎?
真正愛你的女孩,雖然不知道你喜歡什麼,也甘心熬夜為你織一條圍巾,摺一大罐的星星。
真正愛你的女孩,經常想打電話給你,卻怕你覺得煩,要你開口才會打給你。
真正愛你的女孩,在朋友面前經常提起你和問你近況,卻否認自己喜歡你。
真正愛你的女孩,因為掛念你,難以入睡。
真正愛你的女孩,在你面前常亳不在意,其實她十分想知道你的心意。
真正愛你的女孩,只要你對她說"我很想妳",她就會臉紅心跳加速,然後甜甜的笑,對著你說 "笨蛋...你說什麼啊?"
真正愛你的女孩,雖然相隔,她會幻想著你與她的未來而傻笑。
真正愛你的女孩,給你與其他的朋友過她的生日,仍更希望想要你獨自陪她過生日。
真正愛你的女孩,無論你傻或笨的,也會覺得你很酷。
真正愛你的女孩,傷她心,會睡覺前想起你而且不自然的流下淚。
真正愛你的女孩,想告訴你她的心裡的話,但是怯步,因為怕失去你。
真正愛你的女孩,是很多時候不會叫你名字,她會叫你笨蛋、豬頭、喂...
真正愛你的女孩,跟你聊天的時候總會把說話講得亂七八糟的,是因為她的舌頭在自己深愛的人面前打了很多很多的結。
真正愛你的女孩,是每天在電腦旁等候你上線,然而一看見你的名字,就會不知所措。
真正愛你的女孩,是你告訴她有關於其他女生的事情,雖然她臉上總是裝著一副不關心的樣子,但是心裡卻是酸酸的。
真正愛你的女孩,是會在你傷害她後,仍然傻傻的等你回頭。
真正愛你的女孩,是會為了你放棄一生幸福的人。
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Saw these on Fb from one account... i think its worth sharing.. when i read these..i just keep going "WOW" , "OMG" i think its so true..!! When people are in love, they always do the stupidist things yet its also the sweetest...love,xuan :)